Now that you are here, PLEASE DON'T stop reading! I have some really important information that I want as many people as possible to know! So please be kind and read it all :-)
I am a very nice person, if you didn't know, and I believe that the way forward in life is to be positive torwards everyone and everything you know! You might think "but what about those haters you'll find everywhere on the internet?" well, I am nice to those people also! Why? Because EVERYONE deserves to know how it feels to be treated right! See? If you had a bad day and couldn't do anything but say hateful things to people around on the internet (and yes, it's something that can happen to all of us) then you'll probably get a lot of hateful replies back that leads you to even more anger and hate! But then that person would say something hateful to me, and I would respond in a calm way and explain to him why I didn't like being insulted etc. the person would probably just ignore me and call me all kinds of things, but later when that person are good again, he or she will think back on the people who responded, and remember me, as the sensible guy who were actually being strong enough to know what was going on! You know, nothing is worse than when a group of people say mean things to you, no one deserves this kind of torture! Everyone is actually innocint when you look deeply enough into them! Even trolls! It's not their fault that they have been treaten like hell, since the grew up, they deserve love! If everyone were being nice torwards the troll even though the troll was being mean, the troll would probably realize how nice this world actually could be, and the troll would probably throw away the "troll-attitude"! I'm not saying that I am all like "Oh, thanks for the kind words :-)" when I get insulted... I do tell them about how I get offended, and all that... but I DON'T insult them back! You know... I think it's important to not be a double standard!! The best way you can tell someone, that talking in a nice way, is the right thing to do, IS to say it in a nice way, so they know how it feels! Let me give you an example:
Troll:
Dude... you don't even know how to use custom scenery! This is shit...
(reply) Typical YouTube user:
STFU, you probably can't even make something like this yourself, loser.
Now that reply is not very good! 1. STFU and loser, is an insult and you know what I have said about insulting back... 2. Just because you can make something better doesn't give you an excuse to say disrespectful things about others works. Don't try to make him believe that! Now the real problem with the troll's comment was, that he shouldn't give a condescending comment in the first place! And if he finds something "not so good" in your video, he is supposed to give constructive criticism about it, also without sounding rude. Therefore, here is what I would have replied:
(reply) Me
Hey, it's not okay to talk like that about other people's work! If you find a mistake in my video,
you may point it out for me, but do not say it in a condescending way. That's not really nice. Now type your comment again, and make sure you do not sound mean, then I will give you a proper reply :-)
So that's how you're supposed to respond to haters! Maybe they will actually listen to your words, maybe they'll just give you another insult, and if they do so, tell them that they should read your comment again and think about what you said, and that they can actually use it to something! (and then block them)
I am also one of the guys that decides to protect people when I see someone being put down on the internet! I can't bear seeing a crowd of people putting down ONE person, no matter what that person did!
I will always look at the positive sides! I mean, how can you possible dislike someone for trying to be positive? I really don't get it! Recently I saw a video on youtube of a boy who was immitating one of queens guards by walking in the same way as that guard. Later in that video, the guard stepped out of his walking route and pushed the boy, where the video ended. All the comments were from people who insulted the boy because of his lack of respect and bla bla bla... And you know... As such a peaceful person as me, I couldn't just see that happen without reacting, so I was like, come on dudes, the boy in the video wasn't trying to mock the soldier, even if he was, he wouldn't know it until it was too late, poor boy. And you know... that was actually a positive comment, of me trying to be nice torwards the cyberbullied boy, but guess what... People voted down my comment anyway, without realizing that it was a positive comment right from the heart. I mean... usually when you find down voted comments on youtube, it's from trolls or people saying a lot of condescending things... but not this time! Well... I couldn't believe how there was no one who could actually see my point, so I were discussing with a few people there about our opinions, until one guy started to INSULT me for trying to change people's opinions! Man... he pissed me pretty much off there, but I kept my cool and did not insult him back. But the more I was discussing with him, the more he were putting me down, until it seemed that all he wanted was to win the arguement and let everyone think I was an asshole... holy shit! That's what I call a power hungry youtuber! I still remember how condescending he were! And he claimed that I were condescending as well... and I probably were a little bit, but DAMN, he also pissed me off when he started insulting me, so he kind of asked for it! Most people would have been a lot more condescending than I were!
We humans are not perfect always, sometimes we do something, that we said we wouldn't do... and that's just an honest mistake! I can not promise to always keep my cool when I get insulted, but I will try my best from now on! That's however also why I get so offended when people insult me... they don't realize that I am actually trying to be a very good person and I don't deserve it.
But yeah I will ALWAYS be the good guy when I see a crowd of people on the internet putting one person down! And I don't care what people say, I am proud of being a good person! So dear Rebecca Black, Justin Bieber, One Direction, boy from the guard immitation video, ChristianU2uber, boy who got thrown to the ground in the "bully revenge" video, and all other victims of the internet, YOU DON'T DESERVE WHAT PEOPLE HAVE DONE TO YOU, YOU ARE JUST HUMANS, AND I HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU!! :-)
PEACE! (to respond to this text, please leave a channel comment on my youtube page: www.youtube.com/fantazticxd)
Troll:
Dude... you don't even know how to use custom scenery! This is shit...
(reply) Typical YouTube user:
STFU, you probably can't even make something like this yourself, loser.
Now that reply is not very good! 1. STFU and loser, is an insult and you know what I have said about insulting back... 2. Just because you can make something better doesn't give you an excuse to say disrespectful things about others works. Don't try to make him believe that! Now the real problem with the troll's comment was, that he shouldn't give a condescending comment in the first place! And if he finds something "not so good" in your video, he is supposed to give constructive criticism about it, also without sounding rude. Therefore, here is what I would have replied:
(reply) Me
Hey, it's not okay to talk like that about other people's work! If you find a mistake in my video,
you may point it out for me, but do not say it in a condescending way. That's not really nice. Now type your comment again, and make sure you do not sound mean, then I will give you a proper reply :-)
So that's how you're supposed to respond to haters! Maybe they will actually listen to your words, maybe they'll just give you another insult, and if they do so, tell them that they should read your comment again and think about what you said, and that they can actually use it to something! (and then block them)
I am also one of the guys that decides to protect people when I see someone being put down on the internet! I can't bear seeing a crowd of people putting down ONE person, no matter what that person did!
I will always look at the positive sides! I mean, how can you possible dislike someone for trying to be positive? I really don't get it! Recently I saw a video on youtube of a boy who was immitating one of queens guards by walking in the same way as that guard. Later in that video, the guard stepped out of his walking route and pushed the boy, where the video ended. All the comments were from people who insulted the boy because of his lack of respect and bla bla bla... And you know... As such a peaceful person as me, I couldn't just see that happen without reacting, so I was like, come on dudes, the boy in the video wasn't trying to mock the soldier, even if he was, he wouldn't know it until it was too late, poor boy. And you know... that was actually a positive comment, of me trying to be nice torwards the cyberbullied boy, but guess what... People voted down my comment anyway, without realizing that it was a positive comment right from the heart. I mean... usually when you find down voted comments on youtube, it's from trolls or people saying a lot of condescending things... but not this time! Well... I couldn't believe how there was no one who could actually see my point, so I were discussing with a few people there about our opinions, until one guy started to INSULT me for trying to change people's opinions! Man... he pissed me pretty much off there, but I kept my cool and did not insult him back. But the more I was discussing with him, the more he were putting me down, until it seemed that all he wanted was to win the arguement and let everyone think I was an asshole... holy shit! That's what I call a power hungry youtuber! I still remember how condescending he were! And he claimed that I were condescending as well... and I probably were a little bit, but DAMN, he also pissed me off when he started insulting me, so he kind of asked for it! Most people would have been a lot more condescending than I were!
We humans are not perfect always, sometimes we do something, that we said we wouldn't do... and that's just an honest mistake! I can not promise to always keep my cool when I get insulted, but I will try my best from now on! That's however also why I get so offended when people insult me... they don't realize that I am actually trying to be a very good person and I don't deserve it.
But yeah I will ALWAYS be the good guy when I see a crowd of people on the internet putting one person down! And I don't care what people say, I am proud of being a good person! So dear Rebecca Black, Justin Bieber, One Direction, boy from the guard immitation video, ChristianU2uber, boy who got thrown to the ground in the "bully revenge" video, and all other victims of the internet, YOU DON'T DESERVE WHAT PEOPLE HAVE DONE TO YOU, YOU ARE JUST HUMANS, AND I HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU!! :-)
PEACE! (to respond to this text, please leave a channel comment on my youtube page: www.youtube.com/fantazticxd)